INSPIRED BY DAVE ~ MY TOP 65 LIST

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When you get older, you learn certain life lessons.

You apply that wisdom, and suddenly you say,

‘Hey, I’ve got a new lease on this thing. So let’s go.’

~ Robert Redford

Think anything longer than 140 characters is a homework assignment? Sometimes I do. In fact, there’s a good chance your eyes are glazing over right now.

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But I have to admit, I do like lists.  Think: Ellen, Oprah, Cosmo. The specific promise of the headline. The simple outline format that’s easy to skim and bullet points ~ a perfect balance of piña and colada.

Social media is about generating conversations and a list fascinates everyone I know.

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I like to see what’s on it and whether it affirms what I think or is completely wrong.  Like The 7 Accessories That Will Change Your Life (the must-have statement necklace, remember Cleopatra?) or The 12 Secrets of Better Lawn Care (lots of sprinklers).

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Did you ever see David Letterman’s very first list?

Dave inspires me. But why stop at 10?

65 LESSONS LEARNED IN 65 YEARS OF LIVING

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3. Money doesn’t buy happiness ~ but it does allow for a secure life and resources to share with others.

4. Truly, the best things in life are free.  Take a hike, play with kids.

5. Show some love.  Go out of your way to thank people, pick someone up on their way down.

6. Be a problem solver.

7. Seek out the company of inspiring people. 

8. Never judge a book by its cover.  

9. Say no when you mean no, don’t say maybe.  Just be nice about it.

10. Embrace play.  Skip the sitcom rerun, join a community project.

11. Recognize how fortunate you are. 

12. Keep learning new things.  Exit the comfort zone.

13. Cherish your old friends and introduce them to your new ones. 

14. Run towards adventure.  Transform yourself.

15. Look inward.

16. Be brave.  Play on a swing set at least once a year.

17. Face your fears.  Don’t waste your energy on worry. Lose the guilt.

18. Think for yourself. 

19. Grow your own food.  It’s judderingly awesome.

20. Go places.  Anywhere will do. Ask Dr. Suess.

21. Be persistent.  Inch your way there.

22. Just be.  Sit, listen, let your mind wander, feel the peace.  Breathe.

23. Create...music, words, art…and share it with the world.

24. Enjoy a simple pleasure every day.  The slow sunrise, a long shower, berries on your Kashi.

25. Go on picnics. 

26. Journal. Just get it down ~ on paper or in pixels.

27. Watch movies in your bathrobe.

28. Nap in the afternoon.

29. Bake.  Anything with chocolate.

30. Tell jokes.  Write the punchlines on your hand, if you need to.

31. De-clutter ~ in short time chunks or long ones.  Be merciless.

32. Back up your computer. 

33. Google it.  What do you want to know?  It’s all there.  Shocker.

34. Use your best stuff every day.

35. Cook dinner.  It’s a ritual worth celebrating.

36. Avoid roundabouts.

37. You can have carbs at night.  Eat protein all day.

38. Spend part of every day outside.  Yes, even in winter.

39. Get up in the middle of the night and eat peanut butter with a spoon.

40. Pump iron.  It beats dieting.

41. Add something to the tip jar. 

42. It’s OK to be different.  Note: you’re not as different as you think.

43. Try everything.  Even stuff that scares you.

44. Read books. Lots of them.

45. Take care of the earth.  And it might take care of you.

46. Learn the rules.  Then it’s OK to break them.

47. Sing.  If you can’t sing, sing anyway.  Especially at karaoke.

48. Give away something you love. 

49. Make life simpler.  Embrace technology.

50. Marry your best friend.  Hold hands.

51. Believe in miracles.

52. Tell the truth.

53. Learn from your mistakes.  

54. Don’t settle.

55. Focus on what you have.  Be grateful for the goodness.

56. Smile. 

57. Be honest. 

58. Keep a ‘To-Don’t “ list.  You know what goes there, don’t you?

59. Find a mentor. Or five.

60. Family is everything.

61. Focus on your strengths.  Do what you love.

62. Accept yourself. You are your own best friend.

63. Follow your gut, you’ll thank yourself later.

64. Remember what your mother taught you.

65. Take walks with your camera.  This little film tells me that a creative life ~ in whatever way you break from routine and for as much time you can spare ~ is one worth living.

 

Toni 3/26/14

62 LIFE LESSONS LEARNED IN 62 YEARS OF LIFE

“Nobody grows old merely by living

a number of years.

We grow old by deserting our ideals.

Years may wrinkle the skin,

but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.”

  ~Samuel Ullman

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Think anything longer than 140 characters is a homework assignment? Sometimes I do.  In fact, there’s a good chance your eyes glazed over around the enthusiasm/wrinkle line. (Except for you, Devoted Readers, that is.)

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I do like lists.  Think:  Ellen, Oprah and Cosmo. The specific promise of the headline. The simple outline format that’s easy to skim. Social media is about generating conversations and a list fascinates everyone I know.

I like to see what’s on it and whether it affirms what I think or is completely wrong.  Like the 7 accessories that will change your life, 10 ways to beat the high cost of living, or the 12 secrets of better lawn care. (Lots of sprinklers.)

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I try to take a list for what it’s worth – not much.  But if you’ve gotten this far, the choice is yours.  Here’s  my ‘list’ in 62 tweet-able characters …..

Identify what’s most important 2 U;

eliminate everything else.

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…….. or 62 linkable lines.

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62 life lessons learned in 62 years of life

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  1. Be the change you want to see in the world.  Ok, let’s get this one out of the way.  Yeah, it sounds a little frou-frou. But it’s powerful. Inspire others with actions, not pamphlets.
  2. Spend your money with awareness.   It’s the experiences that make you rich, not the stuff.  Unless we’re talking iAnything, that is.  No kidding, Apple rocks.
  3. Speaking of money, it doesn’t buy happiness.  Just everything else…like a secure life and resources to share with others.
  4. But really, the best things in life are free.  Take a hike.
  5. Show some love.  Go out of your way to thank people. Pick someone up on their way down.
  6. Be a problem solver.
  7. Seek out the company of inspiring people.
  8. Focus on your strengths.  Do what you love.
  9. If you want something, ask for it.  The answer isn’t always no.
  10. Say no when you mean no, don’t say maybe.  Just be nice about it.
  11. Embrace play.  Skip the sitcom rerun.  Join a community project.
  12. Recognize how fortunate you are. 
  13. Keep learning new things.  Exit the comfort zone.
  14. Cherish your old friends and introduce them to your new ones.  The last word in ‘lonesome’ is me.
  15. Run towards adventure.  Transform yourself.
  16. Look inward.
  17. Be brave.  Play on a swing set at least once a year.
  18. Face your fears.  Don’t waste your energy on worry. Lose the guilt.
  19. Think for yourself. 
  20. Grow your own food.  It’s judderingly awesome.
  21. Go places.  Anywhere will do. Ask Dr. Suess.
  22. Be persistent.  Inch your way there.
  23. Just be.  Sit, listen, let your mind wander, feel the peace.  Breathe.
  24. Create...music, words, art…and share it with the world.
  25. Enjoy a simple pleasure every day.  The slow sunrise, a long shower, berries on your Kashi.
  26. Go on picnics.  Preferably, on the beach.
  27. Journal.  Blog. Get it down ~ on paper or in pixels.
  28. Watch movies in your bathrobe.
  29. Nap in the afternoon.
  30. Bake.  Anything with chocolate.
  31. Tell jokes.  Write the punchlines on your hand, if you need to.
  32. De-clutter ~ in short time chunks or long ones.  Be merciless.
  33. Back up your computer.  Better yet, spend some of that money for a Time Machine and go do #23.
  34. Google it.  What do you want to know?  It’s all there.  Shocker.
  35. Use your best stuff every day.
  36. Cook dinner.  It’s a ritual worth celebrating.
  37. Avoid roundabouts.
  38. You can have carbs at night.  Eat protein all day.
  39. Spend part of every day outside.  Yes, even in winter.
  40. Get up in the middle of the night and eat peanut butter with a spoon.
  41. Pump iron.  It beats dieting.
  42. Street performers beget joy.  Add something to the tip jar.
  43. It’s OK to be different.  Note: you’re not as different as you think.
  44. Try everything.  Even stuff that scares you.
  45. Read books.
  46. Take care of the earth.  And it might take care of you.
  47. Learn the rules.  Then it’s OK to break them.
  48. Sing.  If you can’t sing, sing anyway.  Especially at karaoke.  Or belt out Amazing Grace at church.
  49. Give away something you love. 
  50. Make life simpler.  Embrace technology.
  51. Marry your best friend.  Hold hands.
  52. Believe in miracles.
  53. Tell the truth.
  54. Learn from your mistakes.  To err is human, to share is divine.
  55. Don’t settle.
  56. Focus on what you have.  Be grateful for the goodness.
  57. Smile. See #4.
  58. Be honest. 
  59. Keep a ‘To-Don’t “ list.  You know what goes there, don’t you?
  60. Find a mentor. Or five.
  61. Family is everything.
  62. Take a walk with a camera.  This little film tells me that a more creative life ~ in whatever way you break from routine and for as much time you can spare ~ is one worth living.

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Toni 3/13/12